Classic 69

One of the most popular positions for oral sex and foreplay, Classic 69 allows you and your lover to demonstrate your tongue skills at the same time!

Difficulty Level
Beginner: a basic oral sex position that is fun and easy to do

Pros & Cons
+ Great for performing mutual oral 
– Can be distracting, especially if you're a moaner

Instructions
Start with the man lying down in bed with his legs spread slightly apart. The woman squats over his face with her legs on other side of his torso. She then leans forward, allowing both partners to perform oral sex on each other at the same time. This position leaves his hands free to explore the rest of her body and tease some of her other hot spots. She can grab his legs for additional support and deep throating or she can use them to tease him too.

Swinging Reverse Cowgirl

This woman on top sex position is easier to do than reverse cowgirl and offers greater clitoral stimulation.

Difficulty Level
Beginner: a basic sex position that is fun and easy to do

Pros & Cons
+ Puts the woman on top so she can set the pace and take control
+ Less strenuous than traditional reverse cowgirl for longer-lasting fun
– Forces her to do most of the work

Instructions
The man sits on the bed, leaning back with his arms braced behind. The woman kneels down on her knees while facing away from him. She gently lowers herself onto his lap while leaning forward to rest on her hands. She can then rock back and forth on her hands and knees while grinding her clit against him for increased stimulation.

Stirring the Pot

Ideal for couples who spend a lot of time in the kitchen, this sex position is great for cooking up some naughty fun while you're waiting for the Thanksgiving turkey to get done. 

Difficulty Level
Beginner: a basic sex position that is fun and easy to do

Pros & Cons
+ Simple & easy to do
+ Adds a fun and naughty touch to your relationship
– Greater chance of being interrupted or getting caught

Instructions
The woman hops on top of a flat surface about waist high such as a kitchen counter or dining room table. She should sit as close to the edge as possible with her legs opened up. He should hold her close while supporting her legs at the same time. He can work his magic, while holding her tight to make sure she doesn't slide across the table. If needed, she can wrap her arm around his neck or body for extra support. This position is great for intimate eye contact, while breaking out of the old bedroom routine. Just keep your eyes open for the oven dinger so dinner doesn't burn!

The Upside Down

Created for mutual oral sex, this kinky position is sure to satisfy you and your partner.

Difficulty Level
Advanced: an extremely challenging sex position that requires significant strength, stamina and flexibility 

Pros & Cons
+ Enjoy oral sex at the same time
+ Head rush increases her stimulation and pleasure
– Requires extreme strength
– Difficult to do for long periods of time

Instructions
Start with both partners facing each other on their knees. The man grabs the woman around her torso and spins her upside down. He keeps his arms in place to hold her in place. She rests her upper legs on his shoulder, wrapping her ankles and arms around his torso to help support her weight. This requires a significant amount of strength, especially from the male partner. But it also leaves both of you perfectly positioned for mutual oral sex. Additionally, she'll also enjoy a heightened sense of euphoria from the blood flow rushing to her head. 

Basic Doggy

One of the most popular sex positions, Basic Doggy frees your inner animal for intense passion.

Difficulty Level
Beginner: a basic sex position that is fun and easy to do

Pros & Cons
+ Great for deep penetration and fast-paced thrusting
– Not good for people with knee problems
– Less intimate than other positions

Instructions
The woman kneels down on a soft surface and bends over, sticking her caboose up in the air. The man approaches from behind, resting his hands on her hips. Basic Doggy allows both partners to move and thrust for wilder and more passionate sex. The position is ideal for fast-paced thrusting as well as deep penetration. And if the couple leans forward 6 - 12 inches, it's also great for G-Spot stimulation. 

 

Tip: For additional thrills, use a blindfold. The blindfold forces you to rely on your other senses, which can make even the slightest touch erotic. And Basic Doggy is ideal for touch, whether he's teasing your breasts or spanking your rear. The blindfold also adds an element of suspense since you don't know what your partner's going to do next.

Standing Doggy

Ideal for wet and wild sex in the shower and other kinky places, Standing Doggy is made for deep penetration when you don't have a bed, table or desk nearby.

Difficulty Level
Intermediate: a moderately challenging sex position for people who want to try something new

Pros & Cons
+ Ideal for sex in kinky places like the shower, balconies, etc.
+ Great for deep penetration 
+ Allows either partner to take control
– Can be awkward or difficult if there's a major difference in height

Instructions
Start with her bracing her hands against a nearby wall or other solid object. Her feet should be flat on the floor and spread apart for better access. He approaches her from behind, grabbing and holding onto her hips while thrusting away to set the pace. He could also stand in place, allowing her to take control by rocking back or grinding on him. 

The Wheelbarrow

You both need a fair amount of upper body strength to make this advanced sex position work. But lifting a few weights in the gym is a small price to pay for the enhanced pleasure and waves of euphoria you can enjoy from this sex position.

Difficulty Level
Advanced: an extremely challenging sex position that requires significant strength, stamina and flexibility

Pros & Cons
+ Creates a sense of euphoria to enhance her pleasure
+ Great for couples feeling kinky and adventurous
– Requires extensive upper body strength

Instructions
The woman squats down with her hands lying flat on the ground in front of her, and the man positioned behind her. The woman then shifts her weight forward on her hands as the man carefully picks her hips up and holds them. This sex position sends blood rushing to her head to promote a sensation of euphoria for enhanced pleasure. But it can only work if both partners are strong enough to support her weight during sex. And most people just aren't that strong.

 

Tip: This position becomes much easier if the man is standing against a wall. This allows the woman to brace her legs against the wall so they don’t need as much upper body strength.

Missionary

Basic missionary might not be very imaginative or kinky, but it’s a simple and reliable position that does the job. Basic missionary is a great way to increase intimacy between couples. And missionary is more likely to end with an orgasm than any other sex position according to an Adam and Eve survey.

Difficulty Level
Beginner: a basic sex position that is fun and easy to do 

Pros & Cons
+ Simple & easy to do
+ Helps couples feel closer together
+ More likely to end with an orgasm than any other position
– Can get a little stale if used too often

Instructions
The woman lies down on her back and spreads her legs open. The man climbs between her legs and lies on top of her partially supporting himself with his hands and knees so she doesn’t have to support his full weight. This leaves the partners facing each other so they can make eye contact and pressing their bodies together for greater intimacy.

Leapfrog

This fun and exciting sex position is intended more for thrusting than jumping. But don’t let stop you and your lover from hopping all over the bedroom… and everywhere else too!

Difficulty Level
Intermediate: a moderately challenging sex position for people who want to try something new

Pros & Cons
+ Great for couples that like it fast and deep
+ Increases his control during sex
– Requires more flexibility and strength than other sex positions
– Can be easy for the man to get carried away

 Instructions
The woman kneels down on her hands and knees. The man comes up behind her and grabs her ankles, lifting them up while she supports herself on her hands. The man continues to hold her ankles and legs up during sex. This gives him greater control as he can rock the woman back and forth for deeper penetration at virtually any speed.

Rocking Horse

More intimate than traditional cowgirl, this sex position allows the man to take a more active role - increasing fun for both him and her. 

Difficulty Level
Intermediate: a moderately challenging sex position for people who want to try something new

Pros & Cons
+ Allows her to control the pace and depth of penetration
+ Facing each other allows for greater intimacy
– Stresses muscles in your back and legs
– Not recommended for extended periods of time

Instructions

Based on the cowgirl position, this variant lets the man take a more active role. Start off with the man in a sitting position with his legs extended in front of him. The woman gently lowers herself on top of him while wrapping her legs around his torso. Both partners remain sitting upright, putting their hands behind their back to brace themselves for extra support. From her position on top, the woman can take control. Sitting up, however, makes it easier for the man to match her actions. This allows the two to rock together in sync for increased energy and passion during sex.

The Backdoor Bow

This thrilling masturbation position is designed for fun and easy backdoor play.

Difficulty Level
Intermediate: a moderately challenging position for people who want to try something new

Pros & Cons
+ Best way to experiment with anal play
– Requires some special preparation

Instructions
Any form of anal play - including masturbation - requires some special preparations. If you're worried about cleanliness, start off in the shower with a little soapy water before drying off. Kneel on a bed or floor with your legs slightly spread apart. Depending on your flexibility, it might be easier to reach your backdoor by twisting around for a side-entry or slipping your hand between your legs to come up from below.

Apply an anal lube to your rear as well as your fingers, anal toy, or anything else you plan to use. After lubing up, gently probe your backdoor with your finger or the tip of the anal toy with a light teasing or stroking motion. Give your rear time to relax, before carefully inserting the object. Take it slowly and easily. If it ever becomes uncomfortable, then stop what you're doing and try again later.

The Conga Line

This group sex position is ideal for couples interested in sharing their love and expanding their sexual horizons.

Difficulty Level
Intermediate: a moderately challenging position for people who want to try something different

Pros & Cons
+ Versatile position can include 3 or more people
– Multiple partners can be difficult to coordinate in bed

Instructions
The first person should sit down with their legs spread open. The second person should lie down between their legs and start performing oral sex on the first person. The third person can then slide between the second person's legs and start pumping away in doggy. You could even add a fourth person at the end with a strap on if you want. The position itself is pretty simple. The challenging part comes when you try to get everyone into the same rhythm. It helps if your sex play list is filled with songs that have easy-to-follow beats.

One of the most interesting things about this position is its versatility. It works for gay and lesbian couples as well as straight ones who don't mind experimenting a little. While the instructions are written for three or four people, you can easily include some additional participants. An extra man or woman could sit on the face of the first person in line. Someone else could slide underneath the person performing doggy to orally satisfy either person. Or you could just work some additional people into the middle.